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EPIK Survival Guide: Soju

Soju (소주) is the elixir of nightmares. The national beverage of South Korea, soju – depending on who you ask – is a spirit made from either rice, sweet potato, the sweat from an old Korean man’s socks, or pure unbridled hatred. During my first year in this country, I went from being knocked on my ass by a single bottle of the stuff, to drinking two or three bottles several times a week, and finally to being able to fade one bottle in a single sip. Nowadays, my experiences with this beverage are few and far between, as part of my commitment to put my drunken days of youth to bed (or bury them in a deep, deep grave, if you prefer that imagery).

As I mentioned in my last post, a single bottle of soju is so cheap (about $.80USD) that the drink would lay waste to lesser societies, were it available in other countries for the same price. Luckily, I’ve never found a bottle of soju in the US for less than $6-8. At that price, you might as well by a six-pack. This isn’t to say that public inebriation isn’t a massive problem in South Korea. It is. Oh, my dear sweet Buddha, it most certainly is. Passing out in public here in the good old ROK (that’s Republic of Korea) is such a common phenomenon that some intrepid foreigners have seen fit to create a blog documenting the many sightings of the drunken Korean (Latin: blitzikus outofhis mindicus) in the wild.

Granted, you may never witness this phenomenon yourself if you teach anywhere outside of Seoul, but that doesn’t excuse the fact that Koreans like to get totally wasted, and often. My co-teacher has informed me on numerous occasions that the average Korean sleeps for about three hours a night, and many convenience stores in my town stock a canned drink called Dr. Hangover. Would you ever find such a thing in a society that didn’t like to get down and dirty? Probably not.

Now, you might think that the drinking life of the average Korean gets mighty boring, what with the whole “consuming the same rice alcohol every night” deal they have going. Well, you’d be wrong.  In their infinite wisdom, the drinking gods have declared that soju can be imbibed in one of several forms:

  1. Soju (소주). The original recipe is easy to consume. Just pour it into a shot glass, scream 곰배 (gombae, the Korean equivalent of “Cheers!”), and wake up several hours later with your pants around your ankles, laying it a puddle of what is probably bits of sick (hint: it’s yours).
  2. Somaek (소맥). Not to be outdone by their neighbors, the Japanese, Koreans created their own version of the sake bomb. Fill a shot glass with soju, drop it into a glass of beer, and call your friend in the morning to let him know that under no circumstances is he to post that video of you singing “Hey Jude” with your arm around a woman three times your age.
  3. Poktanju (폭탄주). My personal favorite way to consume soju, poktanju is a shot of soju and a shot of cola dropped into a glass of beer. It doesn’t sound appetizing, but the flavors combine to make something so delicious that you forget you’re drinking Korean alcohol.
  4. Soju Cocktail. The soju cocktail is the drink of choice for young women in Korea. It’s soju blended with ice and fruit (kiwi being a popular option) to create an elixir that is nutritious on the outside and rife with empty calories and liver destroying alcohol on the inside.

Soju is such an important part of Korean culture that there are rules for its pouring and consumption, rules you’ll need to master if you’re to survive the first week of school ritual known as the “teacher dinner.”  Here are some handy rules to help you make it through:

  1. Don’t pour for yourself. Korean is a Confucian society. Confucian societies are group-centered. Thus, you shouldn’t concern yourself with your own empty glass. It will be refilled. Trust me. Rather, keep an eye on the shot glasses of the people sitting on either side of you. Are those glasses empty? Fill them.
  2. Use your right hand when pouring. Your left hand should be touching the inside of your right arm at about elbow level. Pretend you’re holding up an imaginary sleeve.
  3. Don’t look at elders when you drink or when they are drinking. Again, this is a Confucian society. Status in social groups is decided by age and, unfortunately, gender. When someone older than you is drinking their shot of soju, do not look at them. Simply turn your head away. The same goes for when you drink. Turn your head away from the elders at the table and drink.

If you’re not a drinker, it would still be in your best interest to have at least one shot of soju at the teacher dinner. Recovering alcoholics – or those who simply can’t abide the taste of liquor on their lips – can opt to fill their shot glasses with cola.

It’s nigh on impossible to spend a year here without encountering this dealer of horrible hangovers. Arm yourself with the information in this post and go forth into the Land of the Morning Calm with confidence. Yes, you, too, can drink soju like a champ – with a bit of practice, of course. Just don’t end up with your mug on Black Out Korea.

EPIK Survival Guide: Your New Home

It’s the first day of the school year at Yecheon Boys’ Middle School. I’m currently sitting in the computer lab, typing this post, because my primary co-teacher isn’t sure where my desk is. To make matters even more interesting, my previous co-teacher – who now teaches at a high school in Yeongju – informed me that my school would be completely restructuring classes by sorting students according to ability, not grade. I have no idea if I have class today, nor what grade/ability levels I’m supposed to teach.

Welcome to teaching English as a Second Language in South Korea – an exercise in equal parts joy, frustration, confusion and inebriation. I didn’t think it would be right to reboot this blog without getting at least one post in about life as an EPIK employee, so here we are. But where do I begin, really? I guess every good journey begins with a beginning, so we’ll take it from the top.

Incheon Airport is one of the best airports in the world. Its wide open terminals, comfortable seats, and pristine shops paint a picture of a country with endless possibilities. A country where the people are relaxed and time moves to the slow beat of a Sade track. A country that makes Singapore look like a giant landfill.

Unfortunately, the airport, like almost everything else in South Korea, acts as a delicious frosting masking the bitter chocolate cake below. South Korea is Wonderland, and you, the unsuspecting Alice, are about to leave the safety of the normal world and enter a world where up is down and left is right. Is South Korea a horrible place? Nope. I wouldn’t have spent a year of my life here if I didn’t love almost every minute of it. Is life in this country different from almost everything you’ve known prior? Yes.

Let’s dispense with the paragraphs for a minute and make with the lists. The following are some truisms about life in South Korea. I’m offsetting them from the rest of this post because they’re important. If you read only one part of this post, read this list:

  1. Strike the words “in advance” from your vocabulary. You will never be told anything in advance. I was only given warning of a single event – Sports Day – during my entire time in Korea. Classes will be canceled (or added) without notice, teacher dinners pop up as if they were magicked into existence by Merlin himself, and weekend English Camps will probably spoil countless trips to Seoul.
  2. Learn to love carbohydrates. Koreans eat a lot of rice. A lot of rice. It’s in countless dishes and comes in many forms, be it plain old rice, rolled rice cakes, sweet rice cakes, rice cakes covered in red pepper sauce, etc. In Korean cuisine, the ideal ratio of vegetables to meat is 8:2. Consequently, meat will be a rare treat at lunch. You’ll have to choose between filling up on rice or bringing your own lunch to school. The second option might not go over so well with your co-teachers.
  3. Make a good first impression. First impressions are everything in South Korea. If you are rude on the first day of school, you will be eternally regarded as rude. If you dress poorly on the first day, you’re a sloppy dresser. If you show off your horrible tattoos and piercings on the first day, you’re forever a gangster. If you don’t eat your lunch on the first day, you’ll have to endure countless queries about whether you like Korean food.
  4. Keep a smile on your face. This is crucial. Consider this: if you’re teaching in a rural area, you may be the first foreign face your co-teachers ever see. How do you want that face to look? Do you want Koreans to think that all foreigners are scowling, slouching buzz kills, or would you rather they think that all foreigners are jovial, personable, and easy on the eyes? You are an ambassador/diplomat.  Act like one.
  5. Learn to love soju. Soju is the national drink. It costs about $.80USD a bottle, and almost every Korean loves to drink it. For the recent college graduate, South Korea is paradise, a 24-hour fraternity party. For the alcohol averse, South Korea is a 24-hour documentary on the effects of binge drinking on an entire nation.

I might be stating the obvious here, but South Korea is a foreign country. You should be prepared to deal with cultural differences, but knowing about them in advance is half the battle. If all else fails, just remember three simple words: Kim Yun-ah Fighting!

We’re back!

Extended absences are good for the soul.  Many moons ago, I lost all of the posts on the previous incarnation of this blog, and my general disinterest in blogging at the time led me to abandon the institution of blogging altogether. But I could never forsake my old mistress completely. Absence, as they say, makes the heart grow fonder. So, without much fanfare, the blog is back. I will be maintaining this blog, as well as The Adventures of ShadKat blog on which both my wife and me post intermittently.

What’s changed? Well, let’s see. My wife and I have been teaching in South Korea for over a year and a half. The zeal with which we initially entered the field of teaching English as a Foreign Language has waned, and we’ve decided to set a hard and fast time frame for our stay in Korea: three years. That means that, in another year and a half, we’ll be back home in Arizona. What, exactly, this entails for our future remains to be seen.

They say that employers look upon a prospective employee’s work experience abroad as little more than a paid vacation – that someone who teaches in another country should expect to return home and start from scratch, so to speak. I respectfully disagree. I think I can parlay my three years of experience in South Korea into a rewarding career in diplomacy. I’m currently working toward becoming a Foreign Service Officer (FSO), a much longer title for someone who is pretty much a diplomat. That means becoming well-versed in a wide range of topics, including foreign policy, the histories of hotbed nations like Afghanistan and Iraq, and reading a daily rag like the New York Times.

It’s been an informative past few months, to say the least. I’ve blown through my first issue of the Journal of Foreign Affairs, a publication so massive that it only comes out every two months, several weeks of the ultra-liberal news magazine The Nation, and the first half of Jared Diamond’s Guns, Germs, and Steel, which is on the Department of State’s recommended reading list for one reason or another.

What this means for you, dear reader, is that I’m back to posting about things you may or may not care about. I’ll try to stir up the pot a little bit because the Facebook fights resulting from my blog posts are always entertaining. Feel free to share your thoughts on this blog, Twitter, or Facebook.

Reading Machine

Wow! It’s been months since I’ve had the motivation to blog. Why have I been away for so long? Well, first, I accidentally deleted the database that held all my posts from the Soju Sonsangnim days. Second, I’ve been fixated on the idea that my posts have to focus on life here in South Korea. Really, I’ve said all that can possibly be said about life here in Sparkling Korea. Finally, I’ve been too busy reading to even think about blogging.

Seriously, I’ve had my nose buried in books for the past two months.  Here is a list of the books I’ve read in the past three or four weeks:

  • Tipping Point, Malcolm Gladwell
  • Blink, Malcolm Gladwell*
  • Outliers, Malcolm Gladwell
  • Yiddish Policemen’s Union, Michael Chabon*
  • The Reader, Bernhard Schlink*
  • To Kill a Mockingbird, Harper Lee*
  • Exiles, Ron Hansen*
  • Child of God, Cormac McCarthy*
  • Fahrenheit  451, Ray Bradbury*
  • The Giver, Lois Lowry*
  • Brida, Paulo Coehlo
  • Revolutionary Road, Richard Yates*
  • Atonement, Ian McEwan*
  • Saturday, Ian McEwan
  • Child 44, Tom Rob Smith

The sad thing is, I probably forgot some books. Half our books are buried in a suitcase in one of two spare rooms, so I can only go off of the ones currently residing on our new bookshelf. Clearly, I have the reading bug. I should probably start a blog for book reviews because that would give me a decent excuse to start blogging again.

If you’re looking for a decent read, check out any of the starred books on that list.

Some updates

So here is the long awaited video of Shadi eating skate! It smelled repulsive and it lingered on our clothes for like a week. I never want to smell that again.

Here is my birthday dinner:

The move went well. We are all moved in and got some new furniture. It’s awesome. I’ll take a video tomorrow when the light is better because the sun is setting.

Enjoy these for now.

K
Edit: Here is a quick video of our old apartment. Sorry for going so quickly, but we were in a hurry.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4vykNqOESHE

New Apartment!!

Here is a video of our new apartment. We got the fridge, gas range, TV, and washing machine delivered just after the video was made. After we move everything in and I do some decorating, I’ll take another video. I found an area rug that we are going to put in the living room, and hopefully that’ll brighten the place up a bit. I hope you enjoy the video!!

K

Snow Removal!

Here is a video of Korea’s solution to snow removal.

We are in the process of moving. Almost everything is packed up and ready to go, so when I clean the apartment, I will take a video of it so you can see the old one, and also a video of the new one.

Nothing is really new. English camp has been weird this winter because of all the snow. I missed it two days this week, so we will be making up a day next week…on Tuesday!! My birthday!! I’m excited to spend the time with my students since last year it was traveling to Seoul and shopping before our trip to Taiwan. It wasn’t a very good day (I tripped and fell and it was freezing cold…just miserable all around), so I’m hoping to enjoy cake with my students and going to a nice dinner with my lovely husband.

Until next time!!

K

Having some fun

Here are a couple of videos. I think they are fun. Enjoy!!

Outing

Today we went to Daegu with Dave and Zak. We went to a place called Gorilla Burger:

Then we went to Kyobo books and spent a long time finding books, drinking coffee, and reading a little. We had a lot of time to waste before our 2:20 showing of Sherlock Holmes. Shadi, Zak and I all thought it was “meh” but Dave really liked it.

Apparently there have been some problems with posting comments and such. I’ll get Shadi on it in the morning. He’s currently reading The Giver, which is a book I’m shocked he hasn’t read before. I purchased that again because one of my best students, who got into one of the best high schools in the country, is currently reading that and To Kill a Mockingbird. I told her I would discuss the books with her, and since I said I’d do that, I think it’s a good idea to read them at the same time.

So, tomorrow we plan on cleaning the crap out of the house, so that means we’ll take a video blog of the apartment! Which isn’t so great because we’re moving on January 7th to a new apartment. It’s a long story, quite boring, but it’s not important. What is important is that my friend Denise is coming to visit us on Monday and I hope to have a lot of videos of her visit.

Love,
K

P.S. Please bare with me with the videos. This is my first attempt at trying to put different videos together and editing it with captions and such. Be prepared for a lot of practice things until I get the formula down perfectly.

New

Shadi and I are going to try a new way of blogging: videos. This is the first post with videos. Stay tuned for more videos!!

Dinner with the foreign teachers for Giftstravaganza (AKA Christmas).